Monday 26 November 2007

Why the African man is promiscuous:

• An African wife is an accessory, not a person in her own right. So there is no need to be loyal
• Children, to an African man, are not as important as a new vagina on a sex worker. He only wants them as proof of his verility. An African man with children will kill another man over a sex worker without a thought about what will happen to his wife or children, when he could have just waited another half hour for the other man to finish the transaction with the sex worker so he can have his turn. In London the men meet as one is going out and another is coming in, or is waiting in the hall, and no fighting takes place. Africans would have to fight.
• Sex is always described in violent words most of which give the impression that the man is doing something violent to the woman, and the woman is just an incidental victim of it. There are very few used words that describe sex in gentle and soft terms. As a result, sex identifies very easily with violence and you find violence in the home, violence in relationships, etc. In Zimbabwe, the men insist on dry sex, (that is to say if your vagina gets wet during sex, the man thinks you are useless in bed) This has caused women to use all sorts of chemicals to stop themselves from getting wet when excited. A man can send his wife back to her family to be taught manners, if she keeps getting wet during sex. The fear of getting moist is a real fear in Zimbabwe.
• The number of sex workers is increasing in Africa.

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